Sunday, November 9, 2014

Sermon for Remembrance Sunday

Readings:
Isaiah 2:3-5
Matthew 5:1-12

Sermon 
Today is a solemn day. Today we remember those who have offered their lives in sacrifice for their country. This year the UK would have been at in some theatre or the other for over 12 years and in all the conflicts the United Kingdom armed forces would have suffered 1300 casualties. Since 1900 the UK armed forces have suffered just under 1.5 million casualties from all sections of the Armed Forces. 

I have a strong link with the military and with war. My Father served in the Royal Navy, my Grandfather in the RAF, my uncle was a military policeman and my mother served as a nurse in the Rhodesian Army during the Rhodesian bush war. My brother served in the infantry. 

We grew up in during the Rhodesian Bush War in a town near the Zambian Border. I remember when I was small being made to sleep in the passage of my house because Zanu PF (the party of Robert Mugabe) insurgents had a nasty habit of dropping mortar rounds into the gardens of homes of civilians. I remember seeing the helicopters bringing the wounded and the dead to my mom’s hospital and the sight of my mom learning to use an automatic weapon and side arm during in her training. I also remember the fear of my class when we were told to climb under our desks as the insurgents had been spotted near the school. 

Seeing the accounts of children in places like Syria or Congo or Chechnya or Myanmar has bought back my own memories of my time in Rhodesia now Zimbabwe. But it has also made it clear to me that war and armed conflict is universal. And it seems eternal. 

War is an ugly thing. It is violent and bloody and full of horror and evil on all sides. Last year a marine was convicted of murdering an injured Taliban insurgent. It brings out the worst in people. Paradoxically it brings out the best in people as well. It brings out courage and valour, selflessness and unity. It can bring people together in way we cannot understand. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not suggesting for a second that war is positive I just cannot say for sure that all war is evil. We have fought wars for good reasons like the prevention of tyranny and the protection of the weak. 

But Isaiah promises us a time when war will cease. The prophet reminds us that there will come a time when the Kingdom of God will prevail and peace will be the norm rather than the dream. 
However Jesus reminds us that we have a role to play until that time comes. These words of Jesus are called the beatitudes but someone has referred to them as the “how to be”-attitudes. These are things we can be while we wait for Christ’s return. We can be peacemakers, we can be merciful. 

We also owe a debt to those who have given their lives to protect others whether it be the fields of the Somme or the beaches of Normandy, or the Falkland Islands. We need to remember them and how we respond to them is as important. 

Archibald MacLeish wrote a poem called “the young dead soldiers”: 

The young dead soldiers do not speak. 
Nevertheless, they are heard in the still houses: who has not heard them? 
They have a silence that speaks for them at night and when the clock counts. 
They say: we were young. We have died. Remember us. 
They say: we have done what we could but until it is finished it is not done. 
They say: we have given our lives but until it is finished no one can know what our lives gave. 
They say: our deaths are not ours; they are yours; they will mean what you make them. 
They say: whether our lives and our deaths were for peace and a new hope or for nothing we cannot say; it is you who must say this. 
They say: we leave you our deaths. Give them their meaning. 
We were young, they say. We have died. Remember us”. 

I am a war child and I have been a soldier. But I also choose to be a peacemaker now. I choose to show mercy. I choose to be salt and light to the world. I also choose to remember those that have made war and I choose to honour these words from the poem: 
They say: We leave you our deaths. Give them meaning. 

I can be a peacemaker and be merciful because someone has laid down their life in an act of sacrifice. I will choose to remember them and honour them with my life. How about you? 


Amen 

Monday, November 3, 2014

Thought for the day for BBC Radio Kent

Thought for the day – Forgiveness

This morning, thousands of people in churches across the county will be saying the prayer that Jesus taught us. And in that prayer are some of the hardest words we could ever hope to pray.
We pray these words every Sunday: Forgive our sins as we forgive those who would sin against us. I’ll be honest and say there are times when I go quiet because I may not have the resources to forgive or simply don’t want to.

God calls us to make difficult choices sometimes and difficult choices require courage. Forgiveness is difficult. Indira Gandhi described it as the virtue of the brave. It takes courage to let go of the hurt we get thrown at us, as we go through life. Being able to forgive those who hurt us shows not only those who have caused us the pain (whatever that pain is) but also those who love and care for us that we have struggled with life and have, through the grace of God, started growing into the person God wants us to be.

Forgiving someone does not mean we forget what has happened. It isn’t a wishy washy desire to see the world made right. Ask anyone who participated in the truth and reconciliation commission in South Africa. Those who came either asking for forgiveness for atrocities they had committed or those forgiving the people who had committed those atrocities. It can be blood, sweat, anguish and tears, but it wipes the slate clean and allows broken people and broken lives to start to heal and be made whole.

The American Poet Maya Angelou described forgiveness as the greatest gift a person can give themselves. I believe that forgiveness is one of the greatest gifts God gives us, The Bible tells us in the book of Psalms that God’s forgiveness is as broad as the East is from the West. If we allow ourselves to forgive each other and probably more importantly, ourselves in the same way God forgives us, just imagine what the world would be like today.


What would your world look like if you forgave someone today?